3 Of The Worst Menopause Symptoms

3 Of The Worst Menopause  Symptoms

There are many aspects of the menopause that can make a woman’s life miserable.

Quite often these are openly discussed but there are 3 symptoms in particular that can be really hard to deal with and are often brushed under the carpet.

Find out what they are and what steps you can take to cross them off of your symptom list. 

Table of Content: 

  1. What’s the worst that can happen at menopause?
  2. The 3 worst menopausal symptoms:
  3. Natures Natural Remedies
  4. Diet & Lifestyle Tips
  5. Free Health Consultation 


The word menopause is taken from the Greek language - meno (monthly) and pausis (to stop) and literally means ‘stop menstruation’.

It usually affects women between the ages of 45 to 55 and cannot be confirmed until a year after menstruation has ended.

The time during which women gradually stop producing eggs and eventually stop ovulating is commonly called the peri-menopause and lasts on average 2-3 years.

Once ovulation ceases the ovaries stop producing oestrogen and progesterone.

At the same time women experience a decline in testosterone.

These hormonal changes are responsible for the physical and biochemical changes that many women experience during this transitional period.

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What’s the worst that can happen at menopause?

common symptoms of menopause

First of all it’s important to say that no two women are the same, full stop!

Each individual has a different experience of the transition into menopause but some of the symptoms are the same for many of those women.

The most common symptoms are usually quite openly discussed:

  • Night sweats
  • Sleepless nights
  • Hot flushes
  • Poor memory
  • Aching joints
  • Weight gain
  • Fatigue
  • Hair loss
  • Headaches

Making light of sweaty nights, embarrassing flushes and forgetful ‘menopause moments’ is common amongst women of a certain age.

It creates a shared bond that often helps many women come to terms with this transitional period.

The same can’t be said of other symptoms that are not so easy to discuss with others.

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The 3 worst menopausal symptoms:

Surviving Menopause

1. Vaginal dryness

Low oestrogen levels can alter the vaginal acidity whilst also affecting the lining of the vagina causing it to become thin and dry. At the same time lubrication in the vaginal area decreases.1

This combination can make the vulva and vagina sore and itchy and can make sexual intercourse painful.

It may also impact on a woman’s libido and response to sex.

According to Marianne Trevorrow, a naturopathic doctor writing for The Natural Medicine Journal, approximately 50% of women experience atrophic vulvovaginal changes within 7 to 10 years after menopause, along with commonly reported changes in physical sexual function, including decreased arousal, sexual response, and dryness or pain with intercourse. 6


Unfortunately these changes can predispose the vagina and urinary tract to bacterial or yeast infections.1

The urethra, which carries the urine from the bladder can often become dry, irritated and inflamed increasing the possibility of urine infections.

Because the tissues of the vagina and urethra lose their elasticity, some women are affected by frequent sudden urges to urinate and may also have to get up regularly during the night to pee.

An additional, sometimes embarrassing side effect of this is the inability to control urination, which can happen when coughing, laughing or lifting heavy objects.3

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2. Raging anger

The menopause can be an emotional rollercoaster with frequent bouts of irritability and mood swings, but for a few individuals uncontrollable rage is a troubling feature that seems to take over without any warning.

In the same way that hot flushes rise rapidly in the body, intense feelings of anger can come on suddenly too and what’s worse, you may find it difficult to put a lid on it!

A lack of understanding from partners, family and friends can make matters worse and put a strain on relationships.

While the mood swings may have a lot to do with fluctuating female hormone levels, 5 there are other factors that can bring on menopausal rage.

It is common during this transitional life phase to experience insomnia and night sweats that leave you feeling tired and emotional.

If you’re feeling fragile to start with, sleep deprivation together with the additional burdens of work and family responsibilities that come to the fore later in life, will make it harder to deal with situations you might previously have taken in your stride.

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3. Frequent periods of depression

Depression still seems to be one of those subjects women feel most awkward talking about and yet it is very common during the menopausal years.

It has been suggested that women are particularly vulnerable to depression during menopause because of the changes in female reproductive hormones.

According to statistics 1 in 5 women suffer from the emotional side effects of the menopause and it is becoming a major health concern. 7

Once again, sleep deprivation caused by other symptoms related to the menopause is seen to be a risk factor for depression.

Difficulty sleeping is one of the hallmarks of menopause and according to research up to half of all women complain of poor sleep during the menopause compared to 15% of the general population. 8

What’s more it seems that trouble sleeping is more common in post- menopausal women than pre-menopausal women. One British study identified that menopausal women were up to 4 times more likely to report poor sleep problems. 8

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So what can you do? Lets take a look at what nature has to offer.

If for any reason you have decided against using orthodox medical treatment for menopausal symptoms and would prefer to take a natural approach there are a number of helpful alternatives.



Maca is a Peruvian plant grown exclusively in the Andes and cultivated for more than 2000 years.

It has been used traditionally throughout history for its medicinal properties.

Some clinical trials have shown Maca to be effective for enhancing sexual desire.16

After 8 months of taking Maca capsules, a study on post menopausal women reported significant improvement in many of their symptoms including, depression, low sex drive, tearfulness, hot flushes, night sweats, lack of energy and insomnia. 9


Mexican Yam

This plant extract is commonly found in creams for topical use.

It contains phytoestrogens that have traditionally been used at the menopause because of their balancing effects on female hormones.

The plant compounds are thought to help increase libido and reduce vaginal dryness.


St Johns Wort

Mood swings and depression are often the most difficult symptoms to cope with during the menopause.

Several studies have identified that St John’s Wort helps to reduce low mood in menopausal women. 15


Omega 3 and omega 6 essential fatty acids (EFAs)

Foods such as salmon, fresh tuna, sardines seeds, nuts and avocados contain high levels of omega 3 and omega 6 EFAs and help to support hormone production, as well as keep skin lubricated and flexible.

The essential fatty acids also have a protective effect on brain neurotransmitters, which helps with low mood and depression.


5HTP ( 5-Hydroxytryptophan)

5-HTP is a naturally occurring amino acid and a chemical precursor for the production of serotonin.

Depression has been linked to serotonin imbalances in the brain. Since 5-HTP is needed to synthesise serotonin it is believed it may be of therapeutic value. 12

Early research supports the view that 5 HTP has anti-depressant properties. 13

In addition to these benefits, because serotonin is also converted into melatonin, (which regulates sleep cycles) some studies suggest that 5-HTP may improve sleep quality. 17


Sea Buckthorn oil

The oil of the Sea Buckthorn berry is extremely rich in omega fats - especially the little known Omega 7.

This fatty acid plays a significant role in maintaining the integrity of the lining of the vagina, helping to rehydrate dry mucosa. 10


Black Cohosh

This herbal remedy has been used traditionally for decades to reduce hot flushes and night sweats, which may also help to improve sleep.

Several clinical trials support the use of Black Cohosh for menopausal symptoms. 14


Vitamin C

Helps to maintain a healthy vascular system.

It also plays an important role in collagen production, a major component of connective tissue, which is needed to strengthen and support the skin structure.

Both of these attributes may help to keep the vagina healthy.



Getting a good night’s sleep can make a huge difference to mood for many menopausal women, reducing emotional extremes such as anger, irritability and depression.

Valerian is commonly used to improve sleep, which is supported by clinical research.

One study in particular found that individuals taking valerian had an 80% greater chance of reporting improved sleep compared with others taking a placebo. 11

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Diet and Lifestyle Tips


  1. Eating a balanced diet can help to keep the vagina healthy and stabilise moods after the menopause.
  2. Focus on slow-releasing carbohydrates, balanced with a serving of protein or healthy fats.
  3. Include whole grains like oats, brown rice, fruits and vegetables plus some good quality protein like fish, beans, poultry nuts, seeds, eggs and tofu.
  4. Keep an eye on blood sugar levels by reducing sugar, sweets, chocolate and refined foods e.g. white flour, white pasta and white rice. This can prevent the blood sugar dips that may trigger hormone imbalances.
  5. Reduce your caffeine intake (coffee, tea, cola), which is associated with urinary incontinence. 4
  6. Use a vaginal lubricant with natural added ingredients such as Mexican yam, and vitamin E. Using a lubricant daily as you would a facial moisturiser encourages vaginal elasticity and reduces dryness and burning due to vaginal atrophy.
  7. Keep up your exercise routine. Regular exercise post menopause is excellent for maintaining a feeling of well-being and may help to stimulate hormone production. It can also promote a good supply of blood to the vaginal area, which may be of particular benefit.
  8. Increase your sexual activity too as this will also encourage more blood flow to the vagina, which helps to keep tissue in the area healthy.
According to woman’s health expert Dr Northrup - vaginal atrophy is a common condition that is easily treated. In her opinion, the key to success is a combination of vaginal moisturisers and more sex.2

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We welcome your feedback

Do you agree that these are the 3 worst menopause symptoms?

Maybe you don’t and think there are others that are far worse.

We’d love to hear what your personal experience of the menopause has been.

Perhaps you’ve got some suggestions on natural therapies that you found worked for you.

We’d love to hear from you so please leave us a comment in the box below.


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Author: Jacqueline Newson BSc (Hons) Nutritional Therapy


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